LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agoI'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?message-squaremessage-square104fedilinkarrow-up184arrow-down149
arrow-up135arrow-down1message-squareI'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 10 months agomessage-square104fedilink
minus-squareirmoz@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·10 months agoI just wouldn’t expect a person with low self esteem to call themselves beautiful, that’s all
minus-squareOceanSoap@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-210 months agoYou can know others find you beautiful without thinking so yourself. It’s a hard thing to understand if you haven’t experienced it, but it’d along the same lines of someone thinking they’re fat when they’re 20lbs underweight.
minus-squareirmoz@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·10 months ago“I’m a beautiful woman” is far different from “others call me beautiful”
I just wouldn’t expect a person with low self esteem to call themselves beautiful, that’s all
You can know others find you beautiful without thinking so yourself. It’s a hard thing to understand if you haven’t experienced it, but it’d along the same lines of someone thinking they’re fat when they’re 20lbs underweight.
“I’m a beautiful woman” is far different from “others call me beautiful”