I'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?

LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world · 10 months ago

I'm a beautiful woman, most men would say "yes" to me but I'll never know until I stop being shy, low self-esteem, awkward, aloof. How to get from "Whoa I'm attracted to him," to sealing the deal?

FoundTheVegan@kbin.social · edit-2 10 months ago

This is a conversation about attraction. Self-esteem in this context means body-image.

It absolutely is not, but you are reducing it to that. Read what OP is saying, she is looking for a relationship but is having trouble iniaiting. I mean come on, she calls herself beautiful, yet somehow you read shy as body image thing? That’s just looking skin deep.

irmoz@reddthat.com · 10 months ago

It absolutely is not, but you are reducing it to that.

Literally the first 4 words of the post:

I’m a beautiful woman.

I’m not reading between the lines, I’m reading the words themselves. Don’t call me shallow just because I’m not trying to do SCUBA in a puddle.