Are you like that around everyone or just the men you feel attracted to? If it’s around everyone you should probably work on that first. Maybe join a Toastmasters club to build confidence.
Join a social dancing club. This keeps you stay healthy and also improves your self-esteem. Also it creates this Personal Connection to the other person while dancing. Be advised though - there is also shitty leaders out there, who are purely after that one thing.
Are you like that around everyone or just the men you feel attracted to? If it’s around everyone you should probably work on that first. Maybe join a Toastmasters club to build confidence.
Yes it’s everyone. I have bipolar disorder. The only place I feel comfortable in my skin is at the gym.
I would be a nervous wreck in the formal confines of a toastmasters club. Sitting still, Standing still, talking, aaagh no thank you.
I just want physical fitness, exercise, a personal connection with someone based on that healthy foundation, then cuddling 💕 🍆
Join a social dancing club. This keeps you stay healthy and also improves your self-esteem. Also it creates this Personal Connection to the other person while dancing. Be advised though - there is also shitty leaders out there, who are purely after that one thing.