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Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 15 days ago

ok bullet points and is she cheating

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ok bullet points and is she cheating

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Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 15 days ago

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cheated years ago at valentines day party, was bad alcoholic at time and made out with some dude. Had to find out on my own through chance pretty much, trickle thruthd me after that.
has not since, that I know of, and genuinely seems to care about relationship. Also never drinks anymore at all.
still have somewhat toxic behaviors we are both working on. We lived together for 2 years but recently moved out and back into respective parents houses due to ongoing foot issue with me not being able to work and couldn’t afford bills
decided to stay together and spent every other weekend at hotel for alone time, see each other about 4-5x per week and sex 1-2 times.
Used her car to move last of my stuff to my parents, and I never bought it at the old house… she says she may hAve but can’t find receipt and isn’t the type to buy something like thif regardless m
Yesterday found a 50-80bdollar surge strip protector in her car in box, no sticker with address, and we both asked our families no knew where it was from ,

Am I wrong to assume she may have had someone else in there and he left it in there on accident?

If I am missing details anyone feel free to lll

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I do not see any strong evidence of cheating in here.

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