I subscribe to some pet subs to see cute pictures of cats and dogs to improve my mood and then every tenth post or so is “my poor dead cat”. I hate it, I never knew your catdog and now im slightly sad that its dead. Now I have to unsubscribe from all these cute pet subs cause y’all can’t not talk about how dead your pets are. Maybe join a support group or something.
I subscribe to chicken subs and not only are there memorial posts but also a lot of gore pics where people are asking whether a gruesome wound/infection can be treated or asking to guess what predator ate half of their chicken. I think this is fine, death is a part of owning pets and shouldn’t be shoved under the rug. Ideally there could be a tagging system like others mentioned.
I hate people who can’t spell and who over-ride their spelling checker. We all have pet peeves.
Fake news sir or madam
Im with you that they’re sad posts for a beastie I never knew. I don’t mind taking a moment “to pour one out for a lost homie that was loved and prolly a great boi” though.
I despise these posts. The day my cat dies, I pledge to post some sort of post about him, but it won’t say he died. It’ll be some trash post like “LOOK AT THIS DUDE, HE HAS NO BRAIN CELLS” and it’ll be him like, chewing plastic or going goblin mode on a toy.
GOBLIN MODE!!!1!!!1!!!1111!!!
My experience exactly, and I never see dead pet posts. I hated it.
I agree. One of my cats died some time ago and every time I see one of those memorial posts it reminds me and I get sad again. I did not subscribe to cat communities to get more sad but to improve my mood.
I agree. For pretty much all pet memorial pics/stories.
Except for that one recently with the guy that painted his stairs but dedicated his puppers spot to him. That was freaking sweet and more than “I miss my buddy.”
Except for that one recently with the guy that painted his stairs but dedicated his puppers spot to him. That was freaking sweet and more than “I miss my buddy.”
It was a really good work too, it looks professional. I don’t know how they did it
I think it’s more cathartic to post pictures of my departed pets in the present tense. I get to share my little beauties when I’m feeling sentimental, others get a dose of cuteness, and nobody has to think about how short of a time they’re with us.
I misinterpreted your comment at first and thought you post pictures of dead cats
Yikes. I could have phrased that better.
Your cats are gorgeous. The fluffy-faced one you posted first is my fave and the orange-white one looks like a cute doofus. :)
There was one directly above this in my feed, so that’s a fun coincidence. Ofc my feed is sorted by upvotes so it looks like your opinion is coming in 2nd place to a dead cat.
The black cat lay down? Yeah I saw that! I didn’t click it. I don’t want to know about the dead kitty so this was the perfect post to visit.
Sounds like someone needs to start a c/CatsAliveAndWell.
Once AI gets cheaper and faster you’ll be able to have it create your perfect walled garden for you
It’s like those cute Youtube videos with adorable pets and the comments are just like “yeah he/she’s dead now RIP”
upvoted for having such a stone cold unpopular opinion haha
Do people like seeing those posts?? I’m not so rude to tell people to keep their grieving to themselves, but I’m 100% with OP that they bring down the whole mood when you just wanna look at some cute dogs
Yup. I thought OP was spot on and have always felt the same. I view those subs to see animals being cute be happy about it. I’m sorry for their loss, but that is not cute or happy.
it feels like there’s just peer pressure to act like you’re fine with it, if you say you don’t like it you’re a horrible selfish person
but like bro if you come to someone’s birthday party and start talking about how your grandpa carked it last week you’re going to be asked to leave
This reminds me of the most unpleasant Thanksgiving I personally experienced. There were several factors that ruined the day but, I completely checked out mentally during dinner as one of the guests was talking about inheriting a cat from someone who died and how the cat was now dying. The thing I was most thankful for that year was going home.
Like seeing them? No. Understand that someone is grieving, and probably doesn’t have anyone to vent to if they’re posting to some tiny social media site about their loss? Yes. It’s easy to wish them well, and probably help them a lot through a very hard time.
Start a ghost pets crusade.
“My dead cat came back last night…” and see how it goes.
Haha yeahhh, go all Pet Sematary on em :-)
Exactly!
Kitty came back wrong.
I support your opinion wholeheartedly. I get why people do it I guess but it just makes others feel sad when they could post the picture and tell the story later in the comments or something.
